
Whether you’re in the thick of wedding planning or just starting to save inspiration to a Pinterest board – you probably know the big day can come with an equally as big bill. According to a recent survey from Zola, the average cost of a wedding jumped to over $36,000 in 2025 – with 74% of couples saying they went over their original budget. It’s easy to lose sight of the bottom line when planning for one of the happiest days of your life, but setting a budget and priorities can keep you grounded as you prepare to tie the knot. Check out these tips from wedding planners on how to actually stick to your wedding budget.
1. Discuss Priorities with Your Partner
Emily Forrest from Zola, an online wedding planning company, says that discussing your priorities early on can be the difference between staying within and going over your budget. It’s not hard to feel the pressure of spending whatever it takes to make your wedding “perfect,” but it’s important to leave expectations at the door and focus on what matters most to you and your partner. Lauren Kay from The Knot, another online wedding planning company, suggests finding two or three things you are aligned on as a couple and budget for those things first. Do you prefer to keep your ceremony and celebration small and intimate rather than having a big guest list? Would you rather a DJ over a live band? It’s important to know what you’re both willing to splurge on and where you might want to cut back – rather than having competing priorities that add to the bill. Aside from budgeting, discussions about priorities will be key to keeping sight of the meaningful parts of the day that matter most to you as a couple.
2. Determine Your Maximum Spend
What can you and your partner afford to spend on your wedding without compromising on other financial goals? Consider what you will each contribute and what your families might contribute, if they’ve offered to help pay. The amount you arrive at should be your maximum wedding spend, or the total you and your partner plan to spend on your special day. After determining this figure, you can assign dollar amounts to the line items within your wedding budget. This approach will help you balance the cost of a wedding with your individual and joint financial goals.
3. Expect the Unexpected – Include Wiggle Room
Once you know the amount you can spend on your wedding, set a portion of that aside so you have some wiggle room. A general rule of thumb is reserving 5 to 10 percent of your overall wedding budget for common culprits of overspending – unexpected last-minute expenses or potential vendor changes. That means if your wedding budget is $10,000, plan to spend around $9,000 (or 90% of the overall budget) so you have $1,000 (or 10%) for any unexpected expenses that may arise.
4. Think of Your Budget as a Wedding Blueprint
Kisha Barner, CEO and Founder of K. Barner Events and author of a wedding budget eBook, recommends treating your wedding budget like a blueprint. Much like a blueprint for a house shows a plan for how rooms will be allocated within the space, a blueprint for a wedding shows a plan for how much will be spent in each category. By estimating how much you can spend in each wedding category, you can limit any impulse purchases that tend to make couples go over budget. This will also help you prioritize what’s most important to you and your significant other, as well as track and refine your budget as you go. Common categories include venue, catering, photography/videography, and flowers.
5. Track Spending Along the Way
Tracking expenses as they arise will help you stay true to your budget, make informed decisions, and avoid costly surprises. By tracking expenses, you can monitor if your spending is aligned with your intentions and make changes in real time as needed. You can also make other refinements if there is an opportunity to save or reallocate funds. For example, if you spent less than anticipated on florals – you can decide to reallocate that extra money toward another aspect of the wedding, or save it.
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With open communication and a strong commitment to your budget, you can keep financial stress out of mind so you can focus on what matters most on your wedding day and to begin your forever with the right financial footing. Congratulations to those of you tying the knot soon!
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