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How to Save Money as a Wedding Guest

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Nothing is more exciting than celebrating love and marriage — until the expenses start adding up. One invitation may not seem like a big deal, but when you add in travel, gifts, new outfits, hotel stays, bridal showers, and bachelor or bachelorette celebrations, the costs can add up quickly.

If you’re attending one or multiple weddings this year, you’re not alone in wondering how to celebrate your friends and family without straining your budget. The good news is that with a little planning, it’s possible to enjoy wedding season while keeping your finances on track.

Cue the wedding bells! Here are some practical ways to save money as a wedding guest.

Set a Budget Before Wedding Season Starts

If you know you’ll be attending several weddings this year, it helps to plan ahead. Create a wedding guest budget that includes potential costs such as travel and lodging, gifts, attire, bachelor or bachelorette events, meals, and transportation. Having a general budget in place can help you avoid surprise expenses and reduce the temptation to rely on credit cards to cover costs.

We have a helpful budgeting guide and financial resources to get you started.

Book Travel Early

Travel is often one of the biggest wedding-related expenses, especially for destination weddings or out-of-town events. If possible, book flights and hotel accommodations early to take advantage of lower prices.

You can also look for additional ways to save by:

  • Sharing hotel rooms with friends or family
  • Booking early enough to utilize the hotel block
  • Using travel rewards points
  • Comparing airfare and hotel prices across multiple sites
  • Carpooling if the wedding is within driving distance

Even small savings on travel can make a big difference when attending multiple events throughout the year.

Be Strategic About Wedding Attire

Between photo ops and social media posts, there’s often a lot of pressure to buy a new outfit for every event. Unfortunately, that can add up quickly if you’re not careful. Rewearing the same outfit for every event may not be everyone’s cup of tea – so instead, consider borrowing wedding-appropriate clothes from friends or family.

If you still want the shopping experience, you can also try thrifting for secondhand clothing. This is a great way to find something truly one-of-a-kind without sacrificing style. Renting formalwear is another option, depending on your budget.

Stick to a Comfortable Gift Budget

Wedding gifts are meant to celebrate the couple, not create financial stress. It’s okay to choose a gift that fits comfortably within your budget. If you’re trying to save money, consider shopping directly from the couple’s registry for items within your price range or splitting a larger gift with a group of friends. Remember, most couples appreciate your presence and support more than the price tag of a gift.

Be Honest About What You Can Afford

Weddings often include additional celebrations beyond the ceremony itself, such as engagement parties, bridal showers, bachelor or bachelorette trips, and post-wedding brunches. Attending every event may not always be financially realistic.

It’s okay to politely decline activities that don’t fit your budget. You do not need to overexplain your financial situation. A simple and honest response such as, “I’d love to celebrate with you, but I can’t make this event work financially right now,” can go a long way. If you still want to show support – consider sending a thoughtful card, contributing to a group gift, or making plans to celebrate with the couple another time.

Avoid Last-Minute Spending

The biggest no-no is last-minute spending. Rush shipping fees, expensive convenience purchases, and impulse spending often happen when plans are made too late. Creating a simple checklist ahead of time can help you stay organized and avoid unnecessary expenses. Planning early also gives you more time to compare prices and find better deals.

Use Credit Carefully

It can be tempting to put wedding expenses on a credit card, especially during a busy wedding season. However, carrying balances from multiple events can lead to long-term debt and interest charges that last far beyond the celebrations.

Whenever possible, try to pay for wedding-related expenses with money already built into your budget. If you do use a credit card and have accumulated some debt, utilize smart strategies to help get it under control.

Celebrate Without Overspending

Being part of someone’s special day does not have to mean overspending or taking on debt. With thoughtful planning, realistic budgeting, and smart spending choices, you can enjoy wedding season while keeping your financial goals on track.

If you have questions about managing your budget, building savings, or planning for major life events, First Financial is here to help you every step of the way. Contact us today or make an appointment at your local branch to further discuss the options that may be available to you.

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Managing Finances and P2P Payments When You’re in a Wedding Party

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Weddings are a time of great joy. But let’s face it, they can also be a bit stressful – especially if you’re in the bridal party. Being in a wedding party can cost you around $1,000 by today’s standards. Here are a few ways to avoid going into debt once you’ve agreed to be there for your BFF on their big day and the surrounding events:

  • Communicate – Before you agree to be in the wedding party, communicate with the bride or groom about expectations and expenses. If you’re currently struggling financially and don’t think you can afford what might be expected of you, be up front and honest about it.
  • Save up – If potentially being in a bridal party is in your near future, start putting aside some money into savings now – every little bit helps. Once you’re asked and accept, definitely start socking away as much as your budget will allow (even if you have to temporarily forego some of your usual treats like meals out, daily coffee, Netflix, etc. and put that money into wedding savings).
  • It’s okay to say no if you really can’t afford something. If you truly can’t afford to be in a wedding party, it’s okay to say no – just do it as gently and kindly as possible and be completely honest. You can politely decline and if you felt you needed to, still thank them for asking you and send them a small gift or item from their registry. Or if you would like to accept but can’t afford a destination bachelor or bachelorette party which you know is in the works, be up front about that from the beginning.

Once you’ve accepted the invitation to participate in a wedding party, it’s time to start thinking about how you might pay for upcoming expenses. Person-to-person (P2P) payment apps are very popular these days, and can make organizing a bachelor or bachelorette party easier – and gifting for the wedding or bridal shower a breeze. It’s also a good idea to brush up on P2P payment app safety first, before you start planning away.

How to Plan a Bachelor or Bachelorette Party using P2P Payment Apps

Your best friend is getting married and you’ve accepted to being the best man or maid of honor. You’re honored but also a bit nervous, because you want everything to be perfect – including their bachelor or bachelorette party.

Whether the guest of honor decides on a weekend getaway, a staycation closer to home, or a low-key night in, much of the party planning will probably rest with you. Once you’ve been given a list of possible locations, dates, and the invite list, you might want to start a group text or email to the invitees to get everyone on the same page regarding costs and expectations.

Some things to consider, save up for, and communicate may include:

  • Transportation costs: Plane tickets or carpooling to the destination.
  • Accommodation costs: Hotel or house rental.
  • Costs for various activities: Brewery/wine tasting, pool cabana, concert tickets, meals, etc.

Decide up front what the guest of honor will pay for and what the group will cover. It’s important to get everyone’s input because some may have tighter budgets than others, and you don’t want to put anyone in an uncomfortable position. According to a recent survey conducted by Savings.com, 43% of people don’t feel comfortable talking about money or financial status with their friends. This could be why 52% of respondents took on credit card debt and 39% opted out of some parts of the bachelor/bachelorette party due to high costs.

Consider taking an anonymous poll to help determine how much money guests would like to spend. Once that’s decided, how to split bachelor/bachelorette party costs and share expenses should be fairly easy. And that’s where P2P payment apps come in.

When using a P2P app, it’s very important to make sure you know who you are sending money to – since once it’s sent, it can be extremely difficult to get it back (if at all) should it go to the wrong place. Always verify the contact’s user name, mobile phone number or email address prior to sending any P2P payment.

More Ways to Support the Happy Couple with P2P Payment Apps

Shower Gifts: P2P payments make it very easy to split the costs of group gifts for a bridal or wedding shower. Plus, splitting costs with coworkers, friends or other family members is a great way to afford those higher priced registry gifts for the happy couple.

The Perfect Wedding Gift: Is the couple trying to buy a new house or save for a dream honeymoon? Sending the gift of money is a great way to help support their goals, whatever they may be. And when you send them a gift using a P2P payment method, it’ll arrive right away if you’re pressed for time (think as soon as they say their “I do’s” on wedding day – simply open your P2P app, click on their contact and hit send!).

Learn more about how P2P payments like Zelle® work in our short video tutorial.

To learn more about P2P payment scams and ways to protect yourself, visit zellepay.com/pay-it-safe.

Zelle and the Zelle related marks are wholly owned by Early Warning Services, LLC and are used herein under license.

3 Ways to Save During Wedding Season

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Spring is here and summer is right around the corner. That’s right everyone: It’s wedding season! To some this is a dreaded side effect of their favorite time of year, but to others it’s something they’ve looked forward to since wintertime. One thing is for sure: a busy wedding season can be downright expensive. If you plan on attending numerous weddings this year, here are a few ways you can save a few bucks.

Buy your gift early.

When it comes to wedding registries, we’ve all seen those items that made us think, “Who in the world can afford to buy them that?” You want to make sure those items aren’t the only ones left when you head to Bed Bath & Beyond. Check out that list as soon as you know it’s available, so you can be sure and secure a gift that’s both awesome and affordable.

Prioritize your invites.

If your sister is getting married 30 minutes down the road, you’re obviously going to attend and possibly even be part of that wedding. If she’s getting married on the opposite coast, let’s be honest, you’re still going to have to find a way to go. But if it’s your cousin getting remarried 3,000 miles away, you may want to send a nice gift and just stay home. Unless every wedding this year is taking place in the town you live in, you may have to make some tough choices so you can spend less money and fit your budget.

Make it a group activity.

If you’re traveling for a college friend’s wedding, you probably have other friends that are going as well. If this is the case, plan ahead. If the wedding destination is drivable and others live close to you, carpool and split that gas bill as many ways as possible. Look for a place to stay on Airbnb that can house you and all your friends who will be in attendance. Nothing like a little reunion party while everyone is together!

Wedding season doesn’t have to be a budget killer if you plan ahead and cut costs where you can.

Article Source: John Pettit for CUInsight.com

5 Ways to Budget Being a Wedding Guest

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Wedding season is upon us! When it feels like everyone you know is getting married, it can be overwhelming on your budget. Whether you are invited to weddings of friends, family members, or co-workers, here’s how to stay on budget.

Make a Yearly Budget.

How much can you afford to spend on weddings, parties, and gifts this year? Set a budget and stick to it. If your entire budget for the whole year is $600, then realistically, you may only be able to attend one or two weddings for the year, while still having money left over for other events and birthdays.

It is wise to divide your yearly budget by 12 and save up a little each month. This way you will have money set aside for a future wedding and the expense won’t be an unpleasant surprise to your budget.

It’s Okay to Say No.

It is important to prioritize events in your life, especially if you are on a tight budget or schedule. As much as you might like your co-workers, you don’t need to attend every event they invite you to. This goes for friends you have grown apart from.

There is no need to explain that money is an issue. Instead, graciously decline, saying that you have another commitment that day but that you hope their day is an amazing one. It’s important to tell the couple no right away if you know you won’t be attending, so that they can plan accordingly.

Remember to Count All the Costs.

As a wedding guest, your costs aren’t just the gift you give to the couple. You also have to calculate associated costs like attire, travel expenses, babysitter costs, etc. You might spend $100 on a gift, but a wedding can end up costing you more than double the gift amount after you calculate all of the other costs.

If you are part of the wedding, your costs are multiplied, considering the costs of wedding party attire, alterations, make up, hair, and all of the wedding events you are required to attend, such as showers and bachelor/bachelorette parties. Only assume the financial responsibility for close friends and family members if money is a concern.

Contribute to Group Gifts.

Try to contribute to a group gift if you can’t afford to give a large gift by yourself. Not only will you save money, but you will help fund a gift the couple really wants. This is an especially good idea for co-workers, since many people will feel obliged to give a gift but will want to save money.

DIY Gifts – Please Don’t.

While DIY projects save a lot of money in other areas of your life, it is probably best to give even a small amount of money or gift card – rather than risking a handmade gift. Obviously there are exceptions to this rule, like if you are extremely talented or the couple requests a handmade gift.

If you plan ahead and save a little at a time, sticking to your wedding guest budget will be a no brainer!

Article Source: Ashley Eneriz for MoneyNing.com