Balancing Life in the Sandwich Generation

Are you a middle-aged adult juggling raising children and providing care for an aging parent? If so, you’re not alone. Welcome to the “sandwich generation,” a growing group of people supporting both their children and elderly parents at the same time.

While caring for others can be rewarding, the day-to-day demands of supporting multiple generations can take a financial, emotional, and physical toll on sandwiched caregivers. But with some planning and support, you may be able to achieve a workable balance.

Communicate and set boundaries

Start by opening the lines of communication with both your kids and your parents in order to set expectations and limitations. If you have younger children, you may need to explain to them why you need to divide your time and attention between them and your parents. To help them feel included, look for ways to involve them in less difficult caregiving activities, such as visiting with their grandparents or helping out with household chores. You’ll also want to try to build time into your schedule to do some of the activities that they enjoy.

When talking to your parents, having an upfront and honest discussion about their day-to-day support needs and your ability to meet them – can prevent misunderstandings down the road. When the time comes, you may need to discuss more sensitive topics such as the possibility of having them move to an assisted-living facility, a nursing home, or dedicated space in your home.

If you have siblings or other family members willing to help, set up regular family meetings to discuss how you can all share in the financial, emotional, and time commitments of caregiving.

Leverage community resources

It’s important to realize that you don’t have to carry the burden of caregiving alone. Contact your local senior center – which can provide information on meal delivery services, transportation assistance, adult day programs, and even respite care.

If your parents’ needs are great enough, you might consider hiring a geriatric care manager who can develop a personalized care plan for them. They can also make recommendations for and help coordinate services, housing, and support.

If you need childcare, explore local resources and referral agencies to help you find licensed childcare providers. Contact your children’s school and/or local parks and recreation departments regarding sports leagues, before and after school programs, and/or summer camps.

Prioritize self-care

Putting your own needs first will allow you to be in a better frame of mind to care for those around you. Try to set aside time to rest and recharge your batteries. Even small daily rituals — a walk, exercise class, or meditation — can provide much needed relief.

Your physical and mental health should also be a priority. Stay on top of your own medical appointments and don’t hesitate to seek out counseling if the demands of caregiving become too great.

Explore flexible or remote work arrangements

Nearly 48 million Americans provide care to an adult family member or friend, and 61% also have jobs.1 Talk to your employer about the possibility of flexible or remote work arrangements. Being transparent with your employer about your caregiving responsibilities can help build understanding and possibly lead to creative work solutions that can help alleviate some of the pressures of working while caregiving.

In addition, research the family medical leave options available to you. While the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) provides some protections, your state or company may offer additional benefits.

Stay on track with your finances

When you are busy taking care of others, it is easy to fall behind financially. In addition to being responsible for your children’s financial needs, you may also find yourself shouldering some of your parents’ financial responsibilities. Nevertheless, it’s important to stay on track with your own finances. This includes sticking to your budget, paying off debt, maintaining an emergency fund, and continuing to invest toward your retirement.

Questions about this topic or need help planning your financial future? Contact First Financial’s Investment & Retirement Center by calling 732.312.1534. You can also email mary.laferriere@lpl.com or maureen.mcgreevy@lpl.com

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Making Sense of Medicare

Medicare is confusing, with a ton of rules and dates, inclusions, exclusions, and exceptions. But for those who are 65 years of age or who meet certain qualifying conditions, it’s essential to understand its key parts to maximize their benefits and features.

Let’s start with how it’s structured. Medicare includes four parts: A, B, C, and D.

Parts A and B are called Original Medicare. Part A covers hospital stays and Part B covers doctor visits.

In a bit more detail, Part A pays for hospital stays and follow-up costs associated with those stays. It also covers various outpatient medical services, such as home healthcare and physical therapy.

Part B pays for doctor visits and other medical care administered on an outpatient basis. It may also include the costs of medical equipment/devices and tests.

Original Medicare doesn’t pay all of your medical costs. If you elect Original Medicare — that’s Parts A and B — you should still expect to pay out-of-pocket costs, including copayments and deductibles. Additionally, prescription drugs, vision care, dental care, and hearing services are not covered by Original Medicare, so you may want to consider other options for covering those services.

For instance, you can purchase Medicare supplement insurance and a standalone Medicare Part D plan that helps pay for prescription drugs. Otherwise, you can purchase a Medicare Advantage Part C plan.

Part C, called Medicare Advantage, is an option offered by private insurance companies. It generally provides all of the coverage in Original Medicare and adds — usually — Part D prescription drug coverage, along with dental, vision, and hearing services. While Part C covers many items not addressed in Original Medicare, it may restrict your choice of medical providers and treatment options.

Part D is standalone prescription drug insurance. Most Part D plans require that you pay a premium, and you must sign up for coverage at age 65 or else be subject to penalties if you sign up for it later.

While Original Medicare is the same across the U.S., Parts C and D plans vary according to state, region, and county. Make sure you understand what’s available where you reside to maximize your coverage and benefits. Coverage, costs, deductibles, premiums, copays, and coinsurance vary by plan, so it’s important that you confirm these prior to selecting a plan.

Keep in mind that your choices aren’t permanent. As your healthcare needs change, you can change your plan, too, at least once each year during Open Enrollment from October 15 to December 7.

For more information, speak with a financial professional or visit the Medicare website, at Medicare.gov

Contact First Financial’s Investment & Retirement Center by calling 732.312.1534 to speak with professionals who can help steer your finances in the right direction. You can also email mary.laferriere@lpl.com or maureen.mcgreevy@lpl.com

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