Budgeting for a Wedding | blog.firstffcu.com

Whether you’re in the thick of wedding planning or just starting to save inspiration to a Pinterest board – you probably know the big day can come with an equally as big bill. According to a recent survey from Zola, the average cost of a wedding jumped to over $36,000 in 2025 – with 74% of couples saying they went over their original budget. It’s easy to lose sight of the bottom line when planning for one of the happiest days of your life, but setting a budget and priorities can keep you grounded as you prepare to tie the knot. Check out these tips from wedding planners on how to actually stick to your wedding budget.

1. Discuss Priorities with Your Partner

Emily Forrest from Zola, an online wedding planning company, says that discussing your priorities early on can be the difference between staying within and going over your budget. It’s not hard to feel the pressure of spending whatever it takes to make your wedding “perfect,” but it’s important to leave expectations at the door and focus on what matters most to you and your partner. Lauren Kay from The Knot, another online wedding planning company, suggests finding two or three things you are aligned on as a couple and budget for those things first. Do you prefer to keep your ceremony and celebration small and intimate rather than having a big guest list? Would you rather a DJ over a live band? It’s important to know what you’re both willing to splurge on and where you might want to cut back – rather than having competing priorities that add to the bill. Aside from budgeting, discussions about priorities will be key to keeping sight of the meaningful parts of the day that matter most to you as a couple.

2. Determine Your Maximum Spend

What can you and your partner afford to spend on your wedding without compromising on other financial goals? Consider what you will each contribute and what your families might contribute, if they’ve offered to help pay. The amount you arrive at should be your maximum wedding spend, or the total you and your partner plan to spend on your special day. After determining this figure, you can assign dollar amounts to the line items within your wedding budget. This approach will help you balance the cost of a wedding with your individual and joint financial goals.

3. Expect the Unexpected – Include Wiggle Room

Once you know the amount you can spend on your wedding, set a portion of that aside so you have some wiggle room. A general rule of thumb is reserving 5 to 10 percent of your overall wedding budget for common culprits of overspending – unexpected last-minute expenses or potential vendor changes. That means if your wedding budget is $10,000, plan to spend around $9,000 (or 90% of the overall budget) so you have $1,000 (or 10%) for any unexpected expenses that may arise.

4. Think of Your Budget as a Wedding Blueprint

Kisha Barner, CEO and Founder of K. Barner Events and author of a wedding budget eBook, recommends treating your wedding budget like a blueprint. Much like a blueprint for a house shows a plan for how rooms will be allocated within the space, a blueprint for a wedding shows a plan for how much will be spent in each category. By estimating how much you can spend in each wedding category, you can limit any impulse purchases that tend to make couples go over budget. This will also help you prioritize what’s most important to you and your significant other, as well as track and refine your budget as you go. Common categories include venue, catering, photography/videography, and flowers.

5. Track Spending Along the Way

Tracking expenses as they arise will help you stay true to your budget, make informed decisions, and avoid costly surprises. By tracking expenses, you can monitor if your spending is aligned with your intentions and make changes in real time as needed. You can also make other refinements if there is an opportunity to save or reallocate funds. For example, if you spent less than anticipated on florals – you can decide to reallocate that extra money toward another aspect of the wedding, or save it.

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With open communication and a strong commitment to your budget, you can keep financial stress out of mind so you can focus on what matters most on your wedding day and to begin your forever with the right financial footing. Congratulations to those of you tying the knot soon!

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The days leading up to the happiest day of your life can quickly become stressful as the costs of your wedding vendors start to add up. Let’s face it – weddings are expensive. If you and your partner are fronting the bill, it might be among the costliest purchases you will ever have to make as a couple. It’s common to negotiate on the price of certain big ticket item purchases, such as your car or a home – why not negotiate with your wedding vendors, too? As with many things in life, there is a right way and a wrong way to go about it. While you want to have the wedding of your dreams, wedding vendors also rely on their business for their livelihood. Here are some ways to thoughtfully and respectfully negotiate with wedding vendors for your special day.

Do Your Research

Before you contact any potential wedding vendors, and certainly before you negotiate with them – do your research. Once you have identified potential vendors, read their reviews. Reviews will offer a glimpse into the vendor’s offerings, the quality of their services, and the prices that others have paid. Finding out the average price you can expect to pay – will set your expectations as to what an appropriate price range is, ensure that you approach any negotiations thoughtfully, and know when to identify a good deal.

The research doesn’t stop when you begin meeting with wedding vendors. Collect quotes from several that you are considering working with. Whether the vendor is offering a package or individual services, compare prices to identify which has the best-priced option. This can be beneficial if you are considering a counteroffer, as you can explain what you were expecting for the service they are offering.

Honesty is the Best Policy

When you begin meeting with potential wedding vendors, be truthful about your budget. Also ask the vendor to be upfront with you about what is included in their service, as it would not be recommended to negotiate without having a clear understanding about what you are being offered. Being honest with a vendor will ensure that you are not only being respectful of their time, but will also allow you to make an appropriate decision about hiring them and determining if negotiating on the price is appropriate. If you find that a vendor isn’t being clear about their pricing, take control of the situation and ask specific questions. For example – asking a florist, “Can you provide a flower package that fits the parameters we’ve discussed for $5,000?” will force a yes or no answer.

In discussing your budget and expectations, it is important to be considerate of the vendor and their business. This is where good research comes in – don’t meet with wedding vendors that clearly won’t be able to make your dreams a reality within your desired price range. If you were to suggest a budget that is much lower than what their services are typically priced at, it might suggest that you haven’t considered the time, effort, and expertise which go into the vendor’s offering. The more honest you are about your budget and expectations, the more likely it is that you can find one who can provide the service you are looking for.

Don’t Be Afraid to Compromise

Being willing to compromise can help you save when negotiating with wedding vendors. This can be done in two ways – by identifying things you do not need or by substituting for more affordable options. A good way to identify parts of the vendor’s offering you do not need can be creating a wants vs. needs list. Anything you identify as a need, you probably won’t want to compromise on for your special day. However, those wants can help you identify areas of potential savings and where you can cut back. For example, if you don’t have a preference as to having sit-down service or a buffet as catering options – go with the less expensive option. Or if you need a wedding photographer, but don’t want the pictures to be in any specific format – getting digital copies as opposed to printed copies could save you some money.

If the wedding vendor is open to substitutions, consider replacing some of the pricier options for more cost-effective ones. For example, if your florist came up with the idea of putting roses in your centerpieces, but you were looking for a more cost-effective flower – consider asking your florist to make that substitution.

Negotiating can be uncomfortable at first, but if you approach the conversations with respect, consideration, and sincerity – you might be surprised at the different ways wedding vendors may be willing to work with you. If you have been considering options to help with your wedding budget, consider our Financial Helper Loan. With low rates, fixed payments, and personalized service – you can say “I do” with less worry. For more information, contact First Financial’s Loan Department at 732.312.1500 Option 4 or visit a local branch.